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Post by Dreadlocktruth on Aug 29, 2016 19:18:26 GMT
Another one to bring over from the old forum.... how old were you when you lost your virginity?
For me I was 17 (the age of consent is 16 in the UK, for overseas readers) and it was with a girl from London who I'd met online and had gone to stay with. The whole thing was a potential disaster because she was my first proper girlfriend and I was completely playing the role of someone in love rather than actually being in love - without realising it, of course - and I'd gotten into all sorts of stupid conversations with her about wanting to start a family. Thank God that didn't happen because the Paul you all know and.... endure probably wouldn't exist, had I gone down the family route at that age. I can't imagine what sort of miserable life I might be leading...
And because nothing can happen in my life without some semblance of ridiculum, the girl had an asthma attack halfway through.
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Post by gingerdreadman on Aug 30, 2016 10:34:53 GMT
I was 12 almost 13. 😳
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Post by Dreadlocktruth on Aug 30, 2016 16:03:59 GMT
How do you feel about that as an adult? Mistake or did it work out ok?
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Post by gingerdreadman on Aug 31, 2016 1:19:43 GMT
It worked out ok i guess. I mean i don't feel like it was abuse or anything. I honestly hadn't even thought about such things at that point. My gf at the time was a grade older than me and brought it up. Her adult life has seen a lot of odd and not so great relationships so there might be something there. I just kinda was into it because I was the first out of my friends so i guess it gave me some short lived street cred. As an adult of course doing anything because of street cred is dumb. But after that relationship i didn't again until soon after high school. So i kinda went drastically in the other direction, Not necessarily by choice.
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Post by gingerdreadman on Aug 31, 2016 3:15:58 GMT
Also i dont mean to sound like a prick when i say " i did it because it made me look cool." I really did love her or i thought i did ,but hell i was 13 what did i know about anything? I did spiral into a serious depression that lasted for many years ,until i learned to manage it better, after the fail of that relationship and a few other things.
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Post by MamaKittyLove on Sept 1, 2016 16:22:39 GMT
14.
I was a freshman in High School. Had the hots for this guy I didn't even really know. A friend and I snuck out late at night and he had a friend of his pick us up. It was definitely awkward. There were like 3 other couples having sex in the same room. >.>
I of course got completely attached to him and let him string me around for nearly 2 years. He wouldn't date me but would have sex with me whenever. He finally asked me out when I was 18 and I told him to fuck off.
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Post by KaTune on Sept 1, 2016 16:55:43 GMT
14. I was a freshman in High School. Had the hots for this guy I didn't even really know. A friend and I snuck out late at night and he had a friend of his pick us up. It was definitely awkward. There were like 3 other couples having sex in the same room. >.> I of course got completely attached to him and let him string me around for nearly 2 years. He wouldn't date me but would have sex with me whenever. He finally asked me out when I was 18 and I told him to fuck off. Good for you girl. Shoulda kicked him in the nads when he asked you out! Ha. What an asshole!! |
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Post by dirtyxsaint on Sept 9, 2016 16:27:09 GMT
My first attempt was at 15. I got off on her bus stop after talking about finally doing it for weeks. I got there and after making out forever, we finally started. Being 15 I can't honestly remember how long it lasted. But I never finished before she wanted to stop, nor did she finish as I found out with the entire bus the next afternoon on the ride home. Being highschool, I was teased.
So I didn't want anything to do with sex until I was 19. I was just getting out of Navy boot camp and had what I like to consider my official first time with a girl I met in boot camp who was waiting to transfer. We're still friends to this day.
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